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Does this debt affects your love life too? One of my friend; she always worries about debt and creditors; I think it has started affecting her love life too.




I think the stress of debt affects it. I mean if you think about it, it keeps you up at night, puts knots in your stomach. I would say yes defineatly it could affect your love life, it affects marriages every day.

Sub: #1 posted on Sat, 10/13/2007 - 16:54

fedupinpa fedupinpa

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You should put a poll question on this webpage, bet you get a lot of yes answers. You should see if they would let you put one on.

Sub: #2 posted on Sat, 10/13/2007 - 17:00

fedupinpa fedupinpa

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I'd say yes it can. Its all about the stress...the stress over the calls, the stress over 'how am I going to get money', the stress of 'what are they going to do to me'. It can wear you down & even make you ill.

Sub: #3 posted on Sat, 10/13/2007 - 18:31

lawn1016 lawn1016

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Oh my yes, it did for us anyway. My husband and I before we were even engaged were facing my bad mistakes. He is a wonderful man who is very patient and understanding and sometimes, for me, that made things worse. I wanted him to be mad at me, and granted he wasn't happy at the situation, he wasn't upset with me. He didn't let it affect our relationship, but I did. Whenever I would get a call from a CA I would just cry and cry and my depression would worsen. Now multiply that 5 times a day at least. Thing is I needed someone to be strong for me, I just didn't realize it. Now that we're married, he agreed to pay off my final $3400 to my credit counseling company before we had our first child. It is wonderful to have that kind of support. I still have bad debts but no where near as bad as they were. So, I think that debt not only affects your love life, but life in general. This forum is so powerful because it can bring you to people who understand and truly care when you can't find support anywhere else!

Sub: #4 posted on Sat, 10/13/2007 - 18:36

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I think that it will affect our life. You know that the rich means another word abundence. Abundance means security. We have security when we no longer have to worry how we will get the money for our basic needs and wants. We have security when our life is not dependent upon having and keeping a job - especially not a job we dread going to every day. We have security when there is more than enough money to take care of us, now and in the future. We have security when we know that our children will not have to live in impoverished neighborhoods and be exposed to bad influences. It is not wrong to want to have money. It is not wrong to want to marry someone who handles his or her money prudently. That is i quote from a friend at millionairematch.com.

Sub: #5 posted on Sat, 10/13/2007 - 19:07

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One of the leading causes of divorce is money.

Sub: #6 posted on Sat, 10/13/2007 - 22:25

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If I hadn't gotten control of my payday loans when I did, I would have lost everything, my marriage included because of getting myself into such a mess.

Sub: #7 posted on Sat, 10/13/2007 - 22:29

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Sass, Isn't it amazing how these payday loans impact every aspect of our lives. If we only knew then what we know now, boy things would be different.

Sub: #8 posted on Sat, 10/13/2007 - 22:44

kashzan kashzan

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That's the truth kash! I can't think of any part of my life that they didn't affect! Work, home, school, etc...it all suffered because of the mess that I was in.

Sub: #9 posted on Sat, 10/13/2007 - 22:59

Sassnlucy Sassnlucy
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Still not everyone knows about this very secret part of my life. The lies I have told!!!!

Sub: #10 posted on Sat, 10/13/2007 - 23:03

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